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The Only Pathway
To True Happiness
Chapter 7
Happy
are the peacemakers,
for they will be called sons of God.
Matthew 5:9
Before
we consider beatitude number seven, we need to once again
remind ourselves that the Sermon on the Mount represents `an
advancing line of Christian experience.' MB13.
This
being the case, we may
view this final beatitude as the ultimate victory or, if you
like, as the last major step in God's plan to bring our lives
into harmony with the `foundation principles of the kingdom.'
(DA299)
Before
we continue, please notice from the table following that the first three beatitudes
indirectly allude to the same subject as the last three.
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Beatitudes
1-3 |
Beatitude
4 |
Beatitudes
5-6 |
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Behold
Yourself |
Come
to
the Banquet |
Behold
The Lamb |
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1)
Know that you are spiritually
poor and needy. |
4) Come
daily to the banquet that God has provided for
poor and needy
people who know that they are
sinful, degraded,
and at
enmity with God,
and feast upon `the Lamb that was slain from the
foundation of the world.' (Rev 13:8)
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5)
By beholding His attitude towards the spiritually
poor
and needy you will be made merciful. |
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2)
Know that you are
sinful and degraded. |
6)
By beholding His attitude towards
the sinful and the
degraded you will be made pure. |
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3)
Know that by nature you are at
enmity with God and that,
as such, you have no reason to be proud. |
7)
By beholding His attitude towards
His enemies you will
become a peacemaker. |
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In
the first three beatitudes Jesus is speaking to us about our
true condition, and He urges us to realise and to acknowledge
that this is in fact our true condition. In the last three beatitudes
Jesus alludes to His kindly dealings with us - despite our
condition.
If
we were to summarize the implied message of the beatitudes,
therefore, we might say that God wants us to
realise . . .
(1)
that we have need of mercy,
(2)
that we have impure hearts,
(3)
and that, but for His intervention on our behalf, there never
has been and there never can be peace between God and
fallen man.
(4)
Then, once we accept that this is our true condition, this
realization can only lead us to understand that we have a
desperate need of a Saviour, a Saviour who is everything
that we are not - One who is everything that we need to be
- One to whom we can come for healing, just as we are.
Then, as we come to Him with contrite hearts, and as we
learn of His excellence, we will
discover . . .
(5)
that He is a God of inexhaustible mercy,
(6)
that He is infinitely pure,
(7)
and that He is the great peacemaker - that He is our
peace in that `He has paid
the ransom money for the whole world.' (MS 41, 1896)
Then,
as we get to know Him, and as we continue to behold Him, we will become more like Him and,
slowly but surely, the Holy Spirit will infuse into our
characters the fundamental principles that govern life in
heaven, the principles of mercy, purity and peace.
In
summary, therefore, the last three beatitudes constitute three
promises - promises which might be read as follows:
(5)
If all who hunger and thirst after righteousness will come
daily to the banquet and learn of Me, I will make them
merciful towards others just as I have been merciful
towards them.
(6)
If all who hunger and thirst after righteousness will come
daily to the banquet and learn of Me, I will fashion their
impure hearts after My pure heart.
(7)
If all who hunger and thirst after righteousness will come
daily to the banquet and learn of Me, I will make them
willing to die for their enemies - just as I was willing
to die for them - even while they were still my enemies.
In
simple terms, therefore, God has promised that if we search
for Him with all our heart, with all our soul, and with all
our strength, our characters will be changed - even to the
point that we will feel deep and sincere affection for our
enemies.
`Like
Christ we shall forgive our enemies, and watch for
opportunities to show those who have harmed us that we love
their souls, and if we could, would do them good.' (SD90)
This
then is the ultimate challenge of our faith, to love our
enemies. But to what extent are we expected to love them?
`Jesus
says: "Love one another, as I have loved you." How Much?
Well enough to give your life for a brother.' (1T151)
And
just who is our brother? Who is our sister?
If
we have ever prayed the Lord's prayer and addressed God as
"our Father," then every man who ever lived, be he friend or
foe, is our brother, and every woman who ever lived is our
sister and, as such, we are called upon to love them, even to
the point of being willing to die for them - for they are
family.
This
means, in effect, that even our worst enemy is our spiritual
brother and, as we well know, . . .
`Anyone
who claims to be in the light but hates his brother is still
in the darkness.' (1 John 2:9)
So
the Lord is inviting us to come and to learn. First He asks us
to learn about ourselves, to learn that we are wretched in the
extreme, then He asks us to learn about Him, to learn how He
deals with fallen souls who are wretched in the extreme. Then,
having so learned, we will realise, with deepfelt gratitude,
that . . .
`However
wretched may be the specimens of humanity that men spurn and
turn aside from, they are not too wretched, too low, for the
notice and love of God.' (RH11-12-95)
All
of which forces us to conclude that if no-one is too wretched
or too low for the notice and love of God, then surely no-one is too low for the notice of wretched, low sinners such
as we are?
(1)
Did
Jesus not shed His blood for our enemies as well?
(2)
Is
His grace not sufficient for all men - including our
enemies?
(3)
Does
scripture not tell us that through the cross the world has
been nailed to us and we to the world? Does this not mean
that through the cross our enemies are nailed to us, and
we to them - meaning that God's infinite love, as
expressed on the cross, has bonded us to all of mankind -
including our enemies?
(Galatians 6:14)
Therefore,
let us `consider Christ's pity for man. He knows just how they
were born. He knows just how they were surrounded in
childhood. You don't know what temptations came with their
birth. You don't know the conditions of their parents. Put
away all judgment. Judgment belongs to the Son of God. He is
the One who is to judge the world.' (UL332)
This
then is the ultimate goal of Jesus' Sermon on the Mount, that
we might be brought to the point where we love all men. The
process whereby He does this is first to help us to know
ourselves. When we know ourselves as we really are, we
will realise that we have a desperate need of getting to know
Jesus as He really is. Then, as we get to know Him, and as we
come to appreciate how kind and gracious He has been in His
dealings with us - despite our enmity towards Him - we will
receive power and stimulus to be kind and gracious to our
enemies - despite their hostility, their hatred and their evil
intentions towards us.
Then,
when we have been humbled into the dust by the knowledge of
our true condition, we will only ever look upon our enemies as
candidates for salvation, and we will only ever recognize in
their hostility an opportunity for us to present to them a
living exhibition of the graciousness of God - that
graciousness that has the exclusive ability to change hearts -
our own hearts, and even the hearts of our enemies.
(1)
Then,
like Jesus, we will be kind to the ungrateful and wicked.
(Luke 6:35)
(2)
Then,
like Jesus, we will give food and water to those who
dislike us. (Proverbs 25:21)
(3)
Then,
like Jesus, we will choose to rather be cheated or wronged
than take a double-dealer to court. (1 Corinthians 6:7)
(4)
Then,
like Jesus, we will pray for those who persecute us.
(Matthew 5:44)
(5)
Then,
like Jesus, we will bless those who curse us. (Luke 6:27)
(6)
Then,
like Jesus, we will repay evil with blessing. (1 Peter
3:9)
(7)
Then,
like Jesus, we will do good to those who hate us. (Luke
6:27)
Then,
like Jesus, we will be genuine peacemakers - for who can make
war on someone who loves him, and who can conquer someone who
is willing to die for him?
We
conclude, therefore, that the ultimate characteristic of a
peacemaker, and the ultimate quality that will foster
universal peace, is a deep inward love for all people - a love
that embraces even its worst enemy.
Unmerited
Peace
As
beings who were born at enmity with God, we should be most
thankful for the fact that God loves His enemies, and that He
spared nothing, not even His life, in His quest to secure
peace between His enemies and Himself.
More
than this, we should be thoroughly encouraged by the fact that
God did not wait for us to become His friends so that He might
secure peace between Himself and His fallen creatures, nor did
he require us to meet certain pre-conditions before he invited
us to confidently accept the peace that He has secured on our
behalf. The amazing fact is that . . .
`When
we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to Him by the death
of His Son.' (Romans 5:10)
In
other words, when Jesus breathed His last agonizing breath
upon the cross, there and then He secured peace between the sinless
Father and sinful humanity - and that includes all who are
dead, all who are alive, and all who are not yet born.
`By
His wonderful work in giving His life, He restored the whole
race to favor with God.' (Manuscript 50, 1900)
So
the good news is that we do not have to look forward to a time
when our behavior will annul the debt that we have incurred
for our sins - a time when our good behavior will qualify us
to be reconciled to God - for that time will never come. Today, right now, regardless of all
else in our lives, we can rejoice and find peace in the
knowledge that . . .
`Christ
has made reconciliation for sin.' (SD227)
What
this means is that God is inviting us to accept Jesus, not
only as a complete Saviour, not only as a complete Substitute,
but also as a complete Peacemaker. In fact, the Lord wants us
to understand that Jesus is such a complete peacemaker that we
cannot add anything to the peace that He has secured on our behalf.
Sure, we can reject His offer of peace, but we cannot improve
upon it - nor can we contribute towards it in any way. This is
why . . .
`The
believer is not called upon to make his peace with God; he
never has nor ever can do this. He is to accept Christ as His
peace.' (1SM395)
So
here, once again, we are reminded that while God calls upon us
to obey His commandments; while he does call upon us to do
good works; He wants us to always and only do good works, and
to live upright lives, in the sure knowledge that . . .
`Man
can achieve no praiseworthy exploits that give him any glory.
They are corrupt, polluted, vile; and nothing that comes from
all their doings can elevate them with God; for all that they
do is an abomination in His sight.' (FW24)
This is humbling
truth indeed. Oh yes, our saving faith will certainly be accompanied by good works,
but all who have been blessed with saving faith will
understand that . . .
`Our
good works cannot atone for one sin.' (HR03-01-74)
As
such, our saving "faith that works" will find hope for
salvation only in the good works of Jesus - those good works
that are all His and none of ours - those good works that He
is prepared to put to our account in exchange for a faith in
us that
works. Yes, . . .
`There
may be a fervour of labor and an intense affection, high and
noble achievement of intellect, a breadth of understanding,
and the humblest self-abasement, laid at the feet of our
Redeemer; but there is not one jot more than the grace and
talent first given by God.' (FW23)
In
simple terms, therefore, we do not have any acceptable peace
offering to present to God, and we never will have an
acceptable offering to present to Him - other than the Lamb
who was slain from the foundation of the world, for
. . .
`He
Himself is our peace.' (Ephesians 2:14)
And
so, as we thankfully meditate upon the cross, and as we
grateful consider the precious Being who there bought
universal peace at the price of infinite agony, we are
challenged to emulate His example. This being the
case, . . .
(1)
shall
we excuse ourselves from loving our enemies, and from
being kind to them, because of their attitudes and their behavior?
(2)
shall
we wait for our enemies to apologize and to change their
ways before we forgive them and love them?
(3)
shall
we demand that our enemies reach a certain standard of behavior
before we are willing to die for them?
If
God never dealt that way with us, how can we deal that way
with others?
The
Promised Blessing
By
faith in Jesus, we are adopted into the family of God and, on
the strength of our faith alone, He graciously invites us to
accept that we are members of this illustrious family. Yet God
desires that we not only accept our family membership, but
that we also reflect our family membership - and there is one
very effective way whereby we may do this . . .
`But
I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you,
do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which
despitefully use you, and persecute you . . .
so that you may show yourselves true sons of your Father in
heaven.' (Matthew 5:44, Goodspeed)
Yet
the promised blessing that Jesus offers to peacemakers is not
only that they will be sons and daughters of God, not only
that they will show themselves to be the sons and daughters of
God, but that they will be called the sons and daughters of
God.
`Blessed
are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.'
(Matthew 5:9)
The
question we need to answer here is, By whom will we be called
sons of God? By God? By others? Or by both God and others?
From
the first moment that we accept God's Peace Offering, and in so doing accept Him as our Father, we are adopted into the
family of God, and God Himself calls us His sons and
daughters. Thus God calls us His sons and daughters long
before we become peacemakers. Which means that the
blessing of being called sons and daughters of God refers to a
time when others, besides God, will call us sons and daughters
of God.
Is
Jesus perhaps telling us here that by being peacemakers, and
by loving our enemies, we will bear the strongest possible
testimony to the existence of God, to the unconditional love
of God, and to the fact that we are children of God? Is Jesus
perhaps saying that by loving our enemies we will inspire
others to vocalize their inner conviction that we belong to
the family of God?
This
is precisely what happened to Jesus. At the scene of His
crucifixion, at that moment when Jesus was dying for His enemies,
the centurion witnessed the compassion that Jesus
felt for His enemies, and he must also have heard how Jesus prayed
for His enemies and how He asked His Father to forgive His
enemies - and this despite their ignorance and their hostility. Clearly, that
centurion was mightily privileged in that He beheld the Master
Peacemaker in His most glorious hour. He saw Jesus loving His
enemies - even to the point of praying for them and dying for
them - and what that centurion saw forced from His lips the
spontaneous declaration . . .
`Surely,
this man is the son of God.' (Mark 15:39)
And
thus it will be with all who love their enemies, with all who
feel a genuine concern for those who oppose them, - they too
will be called the sons and daughters of God, for by their
loving, non-retaliatory spirit, they will announce to others
that their lives are in the control of a God who loves even His enemies. This being
the case, . . .
`Let
the impulsive, the self-sufficient, the revengeful, behold the
meek and lowly One, led as a Lamb to the slaughter,
unretaliating as a sheep dumb before her shearers. Let them
look upon Him whom our sins have pierced and our sorrows
burdened, and they will learn to endure, to forbear, and to
forgive.' (Ed257)
`When
reviled, He threatened not. He was wrongfully accused, yet He
opened not His mouth to justify Himself. He was afflicted, He
was rejected and despitefully treated, yet He retaliated not.
He possessed self-control, dignity, and majesty. He suffered
with calmness and for abuse gave only compassion, pity, and
love.' (TMK65; 4BC1148; TDG263)
`Christ
was crucified for me, and shall I complain if I am crucified
with Christ?' (TDG57)
The
Power For Peace
The
ultimate promise that God makes to all who hunger and thirst
after righteousness, to all who come daily to the banquet in
order to satisfy their spiritual hungering, is that they will
become peacemakers.
At
first we might entertain the thought that this is impossible.
Can we ever reach a time when we will feel love for those who
hate us, when we will be willing to die for those who wish to
kill us? I think we all know that in our own strength this is
more than impossible, but . . .
`All
things are possible with God.' (Mark 10:27)
Notice,
however, that the key lies buried in the promise. Jesus did
not merely say that `all things are possible to those who
acknowledge God.' He said that `all things are possible with God.'
In
other words, all things are possible when our lives are buried
in His life, when we do nothing without Him, when we accept
Him as our ever-present Friend and Companion, and when we set
aside in each day the most precious and the most spiritually
productive hours for private communion with Him - for it is
only when God is the overriding influence in our lives that we
can honestly claim to be living "with
God." Then . . .
`When
we are dead, and our life is hid with Christ in God, we shall
not take neglects or slights to heart. We shall be deaf to
reproach and blind to scorn and insult.' (MB16)
Thus
we must conclude that when Jesus challenges us to be peacemakers, He is not
saying that we should not make war, not by any means. Has He
not encouraged us to take up our swords, our shields, and our
helmets? Has He not challenged us to enter into battle? But we
must understand that
the battle that we are to enter into is not a battle against
our enemies - for we are called to love our enemies - nor
is it a battle against sin - for sinners, in their own
strength, cannot overcome sin, but the
all-important battle that we are called upon to engage in is a
battle against those things in our lives that
keep us from living "with Him," those things that
keep us from feeding on the Bread of Life at the daily banquet.
This is the battlefield upon which Christian's either succumb to
defeat or gather together under the victorious banner of
Emmanuel.
Yes,
when we win this battle - the ultimate battle of the soul -
all of Jesus' victories will be ours, and we will be assured
of victory in all of the other battles of life - and
especially those battles of an inter-personal nature. All we
need remember, is that the key to victory lies
in our faithful daily attendance at the banquet of the Lamb.
`He
has taken me to the banquet hall, and His banner over me is
love.' (Song of Solomon 2:4)
Guilt
Of The Highest Order
Forgive
me if I get personal at this juncture, but I feel the need to
confess that my very worst crime, my most heinous sin, is that
I killed the Son of God. It will take me all of eternity to
try and fathom out how the blood that I shed was turned,
through divine self-sacrifice, into the blood that covers even
my most odious sin but, nevertheless, if I am guilty of no
lesser crime than the cold-blooded murder of the Son of God,
then who am I to get upset when people defame me or accuse me
of things that I might or might not have done?
And,
in any event, whether I did or did not do whatever they are
accusing me of, nothing that they might know of could possibly
be more
grievous than my having cost Jesus His very life.
Even
if people go so far as to accuse me of things that I really
did not do, I would like to think that these false accusations
would not upset me, for if it were not for the grace of God, I
probably would have done those things anyway. In fact, if not
for the time and place of my birth, and if not for the grace
of God, I might well have been among the throng that clamored
for the crucifixion of His Son - my surname might even have
been Pilate.
The
point I want to make, therefore, is that in the life of the
fallen sinner there simply is no place for egotism. When I am
honest with myself, I must acknowledge that I have nothing to
be proud of. As such, I
have nothing to defend - other than the name of Jesus who gave
His life for a worm like me.
And
if I am he who nailed the Lamb of God to a cruel cross, then I
must ask myself if there is anyone in this world who is worse
than I am? In all fairness, I must also ask if there is
anyone in this world who is better than I am?
The
absolutely humbling truth is that we all are sunken to the
lowest depths of human depravity and sin, for we all are
guilty of the blood that was shed on Calvary's cross. So who
of us can point fingers at another? Can a leper call a leper a
leper? By the same token, can one leper get upset because
another leper calls him a leper?
All
of which means that all peace finds its roots at the foot of
the cross, for it is here that we learn that there are no
distinctions of any sort, not of class, or of colour, or of
creed, or of position, or of any other man-made distinction. When we bow in humble penitence and awed
reverence before the Prince of Peace, we must realise that
there are really only two kinds of people on this planet,
. . .
(1)
heinous
sinners who are saved by God's grace alone, and
(2)
heinous
sinners who have not yet accepted His wondrous grace.
So
who of us can pride himself in anything? Who of us can elevate
himself above any other man? Who of us can distance ourselves
from others because of the sins they might have committed in
the body - when all too often we might well have committed as
grievous sins in the mind?
And
make no mistake about this, there will never be peace amongst
us until we accept these facts. Nor will we be able to
love our enemies, or be kind to those who despitefully use
us, until such time as we discern our lowly equality.
Revenge
and Retaliation
As
we consider the following, we need to once again remind
ourselves that all of God's biddings are enablings, and that
every precept is associated with a promise - the promise of what
He will do when we enter into and maintain a vital daily love
relationship with Him.
Then,
when we remember that it is God alone who gives us the desire
and the ability to do His will (Phil 2:13), we will be able to
consider the most demanding of challenges with enthusiasm and
with absolute hope.
One
of the most demanding of challenges is that which calls upon
us to be representatives of God, - and there is perhaps no
other time when we are more challenged in this regard than
when we are provoked by the actions of another - and
especially by one whom we might be tempted to consider as our
"enemy."
Yet we
do need to realise that it is under such trying
circumstances that we have the greatest opportunity to bring
glory to God by reflecting His character,
for . . .
`The
spirit that is kept gentle under provocation will speak more
effectively in favor of the truth than will any argument,
however forcible.' (DA353)
This
means that our evangelistic responsibilities extend even into
those times when we are tempted to become angry, those times
when we might think that we have the right to retaliate -
those times when we feel that we are justified in seeking revenge.
`How
many now, when accused of that which they are not guilty, feel
that there is a time when forbearance ceases to be a virtue,
and losing their temper, speak words which grieve the Holy
Spirit?' (4BC1148)
For
the true peacemaking Christian, however, there is never a time when
patience is not a virtue, for . . .
`Christ
has given us His life as a pattern, and we dishonour Him when
we become jealous of every slight, and are ready to resent
every injury, supposed or real. It is not an evidence of a
noble mind to be prepared to defend self, to preserve our own
dignity.' (2T427)
`Can
you nurse revenge in your heart while you remember the prayer
that came from the pale and quivering lips of Christ for His
revilers, His murderers: "Father, forgive them; for they know
not what they do"?' (LHU233)
And
so it is that He who has called us to follow Him, and to
emulate His example, wants
us to realise, not only how low we have fallen, but also how high and how holy is our calling. He wants
us to know that when we gain the victory over our natural
tendency to retaliate, it is not only a great victory for God
but, as the following confirms, it is also healing balm for
our souls.
`To
speak gentle words when you are irritated will bring sunshine
into your hearts and make your path more smooth.' (WM153)
Therefore,
"be determined not to please the enemy by allowing words of unfavorable
criticism to lead you to retaliate or to depress you. Make the
enemy's efforts a failure as far as you are concerned. [Now
notice the blessings that are poured out on the true peacemaker].
"Then the Lord will draw near to you and will give you a rich
measure of love and peace and joy so deep and full that even
in the midst of the trial of your faith you can bear
triumphant witness to the truth of the word of promise.
(1)
"Then
you will have a sense of the divine presence.
(2)
"[Then]
the eyes of your understanding will be enlightened, and
the truth that at times you have seen but dimly you will
then see clearly.
(3)
"[Then]
you will be able to tell the story of the cross with a
deep appreciation of the Saviour's love, for this love
will have melted your heart.
(4)
"[Then]
you will bear about with you in the daily life the witness
that Christ is formed within, the hope of glory." (HP176)
In
this light, we
must conclude that retaliation of any sort is a
costly mistake, a mistake that is not only costly to
ourselves, but to everyone - because everyone loses when we
retaliate . . .
(1)
God
loses an opportunity to reveal Himself through us.
(2)
Our
antagonist loses an opportunity to see God in us.
(3)
And
we lose the composure and the spiritual blessings that
have been promised to peacemakers.
This
is why "we would better suffer wrongfully a hundred times
than wound the soul by a spirit of retaliation, or by giving
vent to wrath." (2T427)
`Far
better would it be for us to suffer under false accusation
than to inflict upon ourselves the torture of retaliation upon
our enemies.' (MB17)
`Remember
that a revengeful speech never makes one feel that he has
gained a victory. Let Christ speak through you. Do not lose
the blessing that comes from thinking no evil.' (7T243)
Which
all only serves to remind us that `you cannot be humiliated by
the unwise speeches of someone else, but . . .
when you speak unwisely you humiliate yourself and lose a
victory that you might have gained.' (HP176)
This
being the case, if we wish to know how far we have progressed down the
pathways of sanctification and peace, we will find that our
ability to remain calm under provocation is a sure yardstick,
for . . .
`It
is not how much feeling we manifest over injustice in
treatment that evidences strength of character, but it is the
self-control, the firm check put upon strong emotion, that
evidences strength of character and the spirit of Jesus.'
(TDG178)
Hear
No Evil
If
the ultimate challenge of our Christian walk calls upon us to
love our enemies, we must accept that this includes loving the
enemies of others as well.
How
often in life does a friend or an acquaintance approach us
and, with the almost universal introduction, - "I know that I
shouldn't be telling you this . . .," they
acquaint us with all of the supposed weaknesses of Some Other
and, sadly, forever after, our opinion of Some Other is
somewhat tarnished. Sometimes even our attitude towards Some
Other changes.
What
has happened in such cases is that Some Other has actually
been murdered right before our ears - not murdered physically,
but in a deep spiritual sense his reputation has been murdered.
As
such, we need to realise that by listening to such tales of
woe, we are witnessing self-exaltation on the one hand and
murder on the other. This is why . . .
`There
is a great need of taking self in hand when we find ourselves
watching to make capital out of the missteps of a brother, a
sister, or a friend. Although we do not acknowledge that the
object of defaming another is to exalt self, self-exaltation
is behind the practice of noting the shortcomings of others.'
(LHU110)
Therefore,
`do not encourage any tempted soul to tell you the grievances
of a brother or a friend. Tell them that you do not want to
hear their words of censure and evil speaking, because your
Counselor has told you in His Word that if you cease to stir
up strife and become a peacemaker, you will be blessed.'
(2MCP439)
This
matter is of no small consequence because, ultimately, we need
to understand that God's name will be vindicated before the
universe, not by angelic advocates, not by deep celestial
arguments, but by a group of saved sinners who refused to commit murder with their tongues, refused to hear
others committing murder with their tongues, and who, thanks
only to heavenly grace, and to the realization of their true
condition, found in their hearts a willingness to die, not
only for their enemies, but even for the enemies of others.
All-Embracing
Love
Having
considered the foregoing, we can only conclude that the love
that God wishes to instill in our hearts is an unconditional
kind of love. It is a love that does not exclude anybody from
the circle of its influence and its embrace.
This
is not the common type of love that is attracted to and
fostered by the endearing characteristics of others. This love
is like the sun - it shines from within and it shines on all, regardless of their appearance, their behavior, or their
character. And just as the sun does not refuse to shine when
the clouds appear, so it is that genuine love does not fade
away when the circumstances and conditions prevailing between
us and others are not quite what we would like them to be.
In
simple terms, therefore, there are no conditions that can
limit the bounds of true love, and there are no circumstances
that can restrict the action of true love - besides death.
(This is one good reason why our loving God hates death with a
hatred that is so intense that He was prepared to die that we
might live - for only death can separate us from His love.)
But
if true love is unconditional, then the shocking truth is
that . . .
`The
love that gives kindness to only a few is not love, but
selfishness.' (COL353)
Yes,
even the devil "loves" his friends and his close associates,
and this is why we are called upon to nurture a brand of love
within our hearts that extends way beyond the confines of our
"inner circle" of friends - that brand of love that is
"not
easily provoked, that suffereth long and is kind, that hopeth
all things, endureth all things." (RC306)
This
is the brand of love that would sooner die for an enemy than
retaliate. This
is the brand of love that would have the courage to stop a
tale-bearer from destroying the impression we have of Some
Other. This is true peace-making love.
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`Would
that there were many more . . .who would soothe
irritated feelings, prevent rash impulses, and quell great
evils by words of calm and well-directed wisdom.' (PP667)
For
`when the children of God manifest mercy, kindness, and love
toward all men, they are . . . witnessing to
the character of the statutes of heaven. They are bearing
testimony to the fact that "the law of the Lord is
perfect, converting the soul." ' (DA505)
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